Don’t Quarrel Over Opinions
Scripture Texts: Romans 14:1-4
Introduction.
Paul has been exhorting us since the beginning of chapter 12 to not be conformed to this world, but to be transformed and changed by the renewing of our minds. He is calling Christians to look and act and speak in ways different from the world.
Jesus says the way the world will know we are Christians is by our love.
John 13:34-35 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.
35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Paul emphasized this by saying
Romans 12:9-10 Let love be genuine. … 10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.
We are called as Christians to show the world what genuine love looks like.
This is the continuing theme of chapter 14. How we are different from the world will be most evident when they see us loving through our differences and disagreements, how we treat one another when we have differences of opinions.
The first thing to notice here is the reality of differences in the body of Christ. The essence of the Christian church is diversity, the church is made up of all kinds of people. Young and old, male and female, rich and poor, slave and free, different races and ethnic groups, differences in backgrounds and preferences.
How is God glorified in the church?
When diverse, divergent, incompatible people welcome one another in Jesus Christ and love each other, this is a church shaped by grace. This is a church pleasing to God. This is sincere brotherly love, this is living in harmony, this is paying the debt of love, this is a church that has put on Christ.
Our diversity is essential to show the breadth and depth of God’s saving grace, and the power of His unconditional love. Unity in the midst of great diversity is a sign of Christian love. Unity doesn’t mean uniformity. We can and should be diverse and unified in our diversity.
What are we not talking about?
We are not talking about diversity on the fundamental truths in Scripture. There are some things that we can’t agree to disagree about.
The Bible is the inerrant Word of the living God. God is both one and three. Jesus is both fully God and fully human. We are saved by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone. Jesus is the only way of salvation.
We are not talking about immorality and sin. The Ten Commandments are not in dispute. It is wrong to dishonor those in authority, to lie, steal, commit adultery, to love things more than God.
Chapter 14 is not about those things. Every issue on which the Bible does speak, it speaks infallibly. But the Bible does not speak on every issue. Chapter 14 is about secondary matters, matters that are neither commanded nor forbidden by Scripture. These issues are not to become issues that divide the body of Jesus Christ.
The question is not what positions or opinions we should hold on various issues, but how do we exercise our freedom to hold differences of opinion.